For the record, the vagina is actually the canal inside. What I think of as the face of the vagina—the lips, the clitoris, the clitoris' hood, etc. all the parts you can see—that is called the vulva. So, this questionnaire is about how you feel about how your vulva looks. [see vulva diagram] though I can't help but ask the question as: do you like the way your vagina looks? because that's what I've always called it...although, that's changing...—Alexandra
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eye of the beholder 43
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do you like the way your vagina looks? go into some detail about what you do or don't like about it.
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Well my inner lips are pretty big and i always that it was disgusting. I also noticed that my clit was big too. So i kind of thought it was ugly, but im learnign to love :)
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have you seen many other women's vaginas? in photographs or live? where did you see them? did you compare yours to theirs? what did you think?
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I have only seen other vulvas in pornography which can be very misleading. Naturally i compared them to mine and found a striking, scary difference. Theirs were plain, nothing sticking out and well porportioned well mine looked... messy.
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how old are you? was this the first time you took a good look at your vagina? – if it is the first time, did you expect it to look the way it does? how often do you typically look at it? when was the first time you looked at it?
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I am 18 years old. i started paying close attention to my vulva at the age fo 15, and my anxiety only grew from there. I used to check what it looked like (in hopes that somehow it all shrinked) atleast once a day. i still catch myself sneaking a concerned peak now and again.
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have your lovers told you what they think about how your vagina looks? what did they tell you? did you ask them, or did they offer?
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At the age of 15 a vowed that i would become celibate for fear of being rejected by men, once i realized that i am a particularily sexual person i thought i could simply have sex in a giant bear costume. I am still a virgin but i find it hard find a guy that i feel comfortable with. A lot my age are virgins and have onyl seen the vulvas they have seen in pornography so i wouldn't want to scare them with my 'radical' vulva.
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this conversation makes me think...
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A good question to ask yourself is this: Why would I bother sleeping with a guy if he can't love my big clit? cute huh?
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