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 do you like the way your vagina looks?
For the record, the vagina is actually the canal inside. What I think of as the face of the vagina—the lips, the clitoris, the clitoris' hood, etc. all the parts you can see—that is called the vulva. So, this questionnaire is about how you feel about how your vulva looks. [see vulva diagram] though I can't help but ask the question as: do you like the way your vagina looks? because that's what I've always called it...although, that's changing...—Alexandra

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do you like the way your vagina looks? go into some detail about what you do or don't like about it.

 
Well... I'm starting to like it, but honestly, I really don't. It's very.. big. And hairy. I shave and shave and shave, but it's still dark, and icky. My inner labia lips are really big and dark, n and so is my clitoris and outer lips.

 
have you seen many other women's vaginas? in photographs or live? where did you see them? did you compare yours to theirs? what did you think?

  I would say so; tons online, and only one in real life. My first 'girlfriend' and I gave each other oral sex in seventh grade. I was jealous of her, because her lips were so small and delicate, and she had absolutely no hair, whereas I had been shaving since the fifth grade.

 
how old are you? was this the first time you took a good look at your vagina? – if it is the first time, did you expect it to look the way it does? how often do you typically look at it? when was the first time you looked at it?

  I'm fifteen now. I've been masturbating since I was like, pfft, five, but I've only been really LOOKING and putting my fingers inside of my vagina for the past year. It's amazing! What have I been missing?! I didn't expect so many folds and dark places. I always kinda thought- clitoris, urethra, vagina, anus. And that's it. But there's more!

 
have your lovers told you what they think about how your vagina looks? what did they tell you? did you ask them, or did they offer?

  My first told me I was big. She laughed and said it was from excessive masturbation. I was kind of embarrased, because I've always been selfconscious of how large it seems. I wonder if it stems from her comments.

 
this conversation makes me think...

  That I'm so self conscious about everything down there!

 
 
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