For the record, the vagina is actually the canal inside. What I think of as the face of the vagina—the lips, the clitoris, the clitoris' hood, etc. all the parts you can see—that is called the vulva. So, this questionnaire is about how you feel about how your vulva looks. [see vulva diagram] though I can't help but ask the question as: do you like the way your vagina looks? because that's what I've always called it...although, that's changing...—Alexandra
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eye of the beholder 60
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do you like the way your vagina looks? go into some detail about what you do or don't like about it.
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A few weeks ago, I had a few hours to spare and so I decided to surf the web looking for ⤠of all things ⤠beautiful vulva. I had become increasingly aware that there were a lot of different varieties out there and I was curious to see how mine compared. I saw a whole website devoted to large labia minora and I was fascinated and mesmerized. There, I saw long, lovely bits of flesh dangling or proudly protruding from puffy outer lips. I thought that they were gorgeous ⤠plump, proud and just begging for teasing with a mouth or hand. I decided to pull out a hand mirror to see how I stacked up. When I looked, I saw ⤠nothing. There was some hair, of course, and some tiny puckers hidden underneath. I decided to pull out the razor and investigate. I had shaved under there once or twice in my life ⤠usually at the urging of a man and always with vague disappointment. The bald pubis looked puny and vulnerable. I had also been slightly dismayed at how I basically looked like a prepubescent girl ⤠not too much different from my own young daughters. With those images in mind, this time I decided to shave mainly underneath along with the bottom half of the labia majora to reveal the lips but not the whole pubic area. I left a thin â¤landing stripâ¤_ like I saw on porno models. Although I liked the effect much better this way (sexy versus prepubescent), I was not pleased at the miniscule â¤peachâ¤_ I saw deep underneath. Basically, my bottom region again looked like a young childâ¤s. The outer lips were tightly closed and the hidden treasure between was no where in evidence. I grasped each lip and pulled them apart to investigate. Nestled in between were two thin small lips that were barely defined. A tiny â¤bumpâ¤_ snuggled down in the middle. No wonder there was no action going on down there! This time, however, I decided to take things into my own hands ⤠literally. I explored the web and found that there were many women who enjoyed modifying and enhancing their vulvas through pumping and stretching. With my hand mirror perched between my legs, I plotted my path. I decided I, too, wanted those thick luscious lips that protruded through the outer ones and begged for attention while announcing my womanhood. I longed for a jaunty clitoris to poke out proudly and pleasure itself on tongue or finger. I wanted the sex parts of a grown woman and not a young girl! I carefully began a program of steadily pulling on my inner lips while pumping them several times a day. Within a week, I could actually begin to see a difference! When I began, I could barely grasp each lip between my fingers. After only a week or two of regular attention, I could pull them out and down while seated. There, they looked so sexy and perky ⤠fleshy flowers that directed your attention to the glistering prize in between. My clit had enlarged as well and the shaft now stuck out and down for â¤. Alas, when I stood up, my wonderful â¤worksâ¤_ contracted back up though my outer lips though they were not as hidden as before. In addition, I could begin to feel them between my legs as I moved around. I found that sensual and freeing as I went about my business. Only I knew what a sexy package lay between my legs. I delighted in my knowledge that I was actively defining the vulva that I wanted to possess. So that is now my ongoing goal ⤠to stretch and enlarge my inner labia so that they push through my outer lips in a lovely â¤blooming roseâ¤_. I, ideally, would love to enlarge my whole vulva as well. I would love to have a puffy, swollen mound with sweetly blooming petals and a perky protrusion in the center that would require prudence in the type of bathing suit I purchased for fear of raising eyes and blood pressures. After I attain my goal of visible inner labia (I intend for them to just poke through and be visible for Â_ inch or so), I want to get a vertical hood piercing to further decorate my lovely pubis as a celebration of my gorgeous mound. I am thrilled and constantly titillated at the ongoing care and construction of my â¤kittyâ¤_. I shave each morning in the shower to make sure it is clean, fresh and smooth. At first, I thought this would be an annoyance but I have come to enjoy those few minutes as I carefully unfold, defuzz and tug on my lovely petals. I then lubricate my whole vulva with a nice cream. It gives a great start to my day, as I emerge feeling sexy, and powerful. I no longer worry about any smell as this constant attention keeps it fresh and odor-free. As I go through my day, I take a few minutes in the bathroom stall to, again, separate and grasp my lovely petals. I love to look down and see their progress along with my lengthening knob. I pull back up my tiny, sheer thong (I threw away the granny panties when I began my quest), arrange my pubs, wash my hands and exit ⤠again sexy and powerful at the knowledge of my treasure.
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have you seen many other women's vaginas? in photographs or live? where did you see them? did you compare yours to theirs? what did you think?
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I have only seen them in photos; see above
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how old are you? was this the first time you took a good look at your vagina? – if it is the first time, did you expect it to look the way it does? how often do you typically look at it? when was the first time you looked at it?
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I was young - maybe 10 or so
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have your lovers told you what they think about how your vagina looks? what did they tell you? did you ask them, or did they offer?
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Never had any voice an opinion; although I have only had a few lovers
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this conversation makes me think...
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I love the exploration of this topic!
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