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 do you like the way your vagina looks?
For the record, the vagina is actually the canal inside. What I think of as the face of the vagina—the lips, the clitoris, the clitoris' hood, etc. all the parts you can see—that is called the vulva. So, this questionnaire is about how you feel about how your vulva looks. [see vulva diagram] though I can't help but ask the question as: do you like the way your vagina looks? because that's what I've always called it...although, that's changing...—Alexandra

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do you like the way your vagina looks? go into some detail about what you do or don't like about it.

 
No the outer lips are far too long - this cant be normal.

 
have you seen many other women's vaginas? in photographs or live? where did you see them? did you compare yours to theirs? what did you think?

  in photos none like mine. my ex husband told me that mine were like 'spaniels ears'. He did this in public and I was devastated - hence he became my 'ex'.

 
how old are you? was this the first time you took a good look at your vagina? – if it is the first time, did you expect it to look the way it does? how often do you typically look at it? when was the first time you looked at it?

  I am 31. It became like this at puberty. When i was 13 I triend to cut them off my self as I looked nothing like a Barbie doll. Still would do it if it didnt hurt.

 
have your lovers told you what they think about how your vagina looks? what did they tell you? did you ask them, or did they offer?

  My new husband says he loves them, but I am unconfident and dont believe him.

 
this conversation makes me think...

  That I wish I had the money and the confidence for a vag. operation, but know that in a way this is genital mutilation. I need to remember that God gave me what i've got and I need to make the best of it! (but it is hard when u hate sections of yourself).

 
 
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