For the record, the vagina is actually the canal inside. What I think of as the face of the vagina—the lips, the clitoris, the clitoris' hood, etc. all the parts you can see—that is called the vulva. So, this questionnaire is about how you feel about how your vulva looks. [see vulva diagram] though I can't help but ask the question as: do you like the way your vagina looks? because that's what I've always called it...although, that's changing...—Alexandra
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eye of the beholder 82
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do you like the way your vagina looks? go into some detail about what you do or don't like about it.
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when i was 15 i tried to cut off my inner labias with scissors. everything down there is big making bathing suits and underwear hard to buy.
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have you seen many other women's vaginas? in photographs or live? where did you see them? did you compare yours to theirs? what did you think?
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2 friends in an effort to prove me wrong showed me theirs and when it came time for me... well, they saw I was right. Their's looked nothing like mine. I felt right to continue to believe that i need sugery to fix it.
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how old are you? was this the first time you took a good look at your vagina? – if it is the first time, did you expect it to look the way it does? how often do you typically look at it? when was the first time you looked at it?
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36 not the first time. i was molested as a child and looked then to figure out what it was.
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have your lovers told you what they think about how your vagina looks? what did they tell you? did you ask them, or did they offer?
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no one had ever mentioned it partly because i did everything possible to keep their hands and eyes away from that area. my husband now was a virgin so luckily mine is the only one he has seen.
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this conversation makes me think...
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i hope i'm not alone with my shame.
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