For the record, the vagina is actually the canal inside. What I think of as the face of the vagina—the lips, the clitoris, the clitoris' hood, etc. all the parts you can see—that is called the vulva. So, this questionnaire is about how you feel about how your vulva looks. [see vulva diagram] though I can't help but ask the question as: do you like the way your vagina looks? because that's what I've always called it...although, that's changing...—Alexandra
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do you like the way your vagina looks? go into some detail about what you
do or don't like about it.
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No. The outer lips open too easily and in the inner lips are
too long. I feel like it looks "roast beefy" as some
would say.
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have you seen
many other women's vaginas? in photographs or live? where did you see
them? did you compare yours to theirs? what did you think?
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I have seen
some in porn. They have always been gross. The ones I've seen in real
life have been diverse but people aren't always as accepting as I am.
The other peoples were sometimes better or worse than mine but I always
saw mine as gross and there's as nice, no matter what.
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how old are
you? was this the first time you took a good look at your vagina? – if
it is the first time, did you expect it to look the way it does? how
often do you typically look at it? when was the first time you looked
at it?
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I was very
very young when I started to look. I think somewhere between the ages
of 5-7. I was curious and my mom was supportive and I liked it until
I got molested a few years later. From that point on, I hate it. I still
look at it alot, hoping to justify how gross it is.
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have your lovers
told you what they think about how your vagina looks? what did they tell
you? did you ask them, or did they offer?
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I've only
been very intimate with one man, who I lost my virginity to. He loved
it and loved to play with it and look at it and please me but I'm afraid
in the process, he made me loose.
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this conversation
makes me think...
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This converstaion
makes me happy to talk about it, scared for someone else to hear it and
not really any more hopeful than I was before.
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