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do you like the way your vagina looks?
For the record, the vagina is actually the canal inside. What I think of as the face of the vagina—the lips, the clitoris, the clitoris' hood, etc. all the parts you can see—that is called the vulva. So, this questionnaire is about how you feel about how your vulva looks. [see vulva diagram] though I can't help but ask the question as: do you like the way your vagina looks? because that's what I've always called it...although, that's changing...—Alexandra



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do you like the way your vagina looks? go into some detail about what you do or don't like about it.

 
No. It is extremely hairy and the outer labia is flat, and inner lips too long. I often have red spots down there too, from shaving or waxing. It's embarrassing

 
  have you seen many other women's vaginas? in photographs or live? where did you see them? did you compare yours to theirs? what did you think?

  Theirs always look smooth-skinned and their outer labias more puffy and sexy. :(

 
  how old are you? was this the first time you took a good look at your vagina? – if it is the first time, did you expect it to look the way it does? how often do you typically look at it? when was the first time you looked at it?

  31. First time, about 12.

 
  have your lovers told you what they think about how your vagina looks? what did they tell you? did you ask them, or did they offer?

  My husband does not like my vagina, nor my small breasts. I did NOT ask but comments about other women's ones made me realise what he preferred. When confronted he admitted it.

 
  this conversation makes me think...

  So what if he oggles other women. I'm not here to please him anyway.

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