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personal: eye of the beholder
 
do you like the way your vagina looks?
For the record, the vagina is actually the canal inside. What I think of as the face of the vagina—the lips, the clitoris, the clitoris' hood, etc. all the parts you can see—that is called the vulva. So, this questionnaire is about how you feel about how your vulva looks. [see vulva diagram] though I can't help but ask the question as: do you like the way your vagina looks? because that's what I've always called it...although, that's changing...—Alexandra



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do you like the way your vagina looks? go into some detail about what you do or don't like about it.

 
I really like how it looks, it's like a flower and the inner and outer lips fit nicely and are as symmetrical as one can expect of a body part. It's nice and pink and really beautiful. It looks warm and inviting and very much adorable.

 
  have you seen many other women's vaginas? in photographs or live? where did you see them? did you compare yours to theirs? what did you think?

  I have only seen a few photographed vaginas. I was repulsed once, but the other was similar looking. I'd like to see more just to understand what's normal looking.

 
  how old are you? was this the first time you took a good look at your vagina? – if it is the first time, did you expect it to look the way it does? how often do you typically look at it? when was the first time you looked at it?

  I first looked at my vagina when I was 14 and I couldn't bear wearing pads anymore. I looked in a mirror to see exactly where the hole was. It repulsed and embarrassed me at first, but I grew to love it when a boyfriend helped me shed years of mental hang-ups. Now I look at it whenever I want to.

 
  have your lovers told you what they think about how your vagina looks? what did they tell you? did you ask them, or did they offer?

  That boyfriend, who I am still with, said it was the most beautiful thing he had ever seen, some time later also comparing it to a flower- both in look and scent. Sometimes when I'm naked in bed he'll move my leg, gaze at it, smile and sigh whistfully. It's a great ego boost.

 
  this conversation makes me think...

  About him between my legs

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