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personal: eye of the beholder
 
do you like the way your vagina looks?
For the record, the vagina is actually the canal inside. What I think of as the face of the vagina—the lips, the clitoris, the clitoris' hood, etc. all the parts you can see—that is called the vulva. So, this questionnaire is about how you feel about how your vulva looks. [see vulva diagram] though I can't help but ask the question as: do you like the way your vagina looks? because that's what I've always called it...although, that's changing...—Alexandra



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do you like the way your vagina looks? go into some detail about what you do or don't like about it.

 
sometimes, sometimes no... my inner lips protrude a tiny bit, I used to be very embarassed of it but now I have learned to except it a little more

 
  have you seen many other women's vaginas? in photographs or live? where did you see them? did you compare yours to theirs? what did you think?

  yes, in person when I was younger my friends would walk around naked and I never would because their vaginas looked "normal" and I thought mine did not.

 
  how old are you? was this the first time you took a good look at your vagina? – if it is the first time, did you expect it to look the way it does? how often do you typically look at it? when was the first time you looked at it?

  19, I took a good look at my vagina when I was probably 15. I never thought mine was different until around then. I look at it once every couple of days and when I am in the shower of course

 
  have your lovers told you what they think about how your vagina looks? what did they tell you? did you ask them, or did they offer?

  My boyfriend thinks it is beautiful and loves to go down. He offered and when he complimented me I couldn't believe it and I asked him why he would think it was attractive. It took me a long time to find someone that I trusted enough to be intimate with them because I was so ashamed of my vagina for a long time

 
  this conversation makes me think...

  I wasted a lot of time being so insecure because to a guy, unless there is something really obviously different, a vagina is a vagina and they are all unique and beautiful!

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