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personal: eye of the beholder
 
do you like the way your vagina looks?
For the record, the vagina is actually the canal inside. What I think of as the face of the vagina—the lips, the clitoris, the clitoris' hood, etc. all the parts you can see—that is called the vulva. So, this questionnaire is about how you feel about how your vulva looks. [see vulva diagram] though I can't help but ask the question as: do you like the way your vagina looks? because that's what I've always called it...although, that's changing...—Alexandra



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do you like the way your vagina looks? go into some detail about what you do or don't like about it.

 
The outer lips are not full enough. They just don't puff out like I've the ones I've seen. and I've seen many up close.

 
  have you seen many other women's vaginas? in photographs or live? where did you see them? did you compare yours to theirs? what did you think?

  Yes I have. Mostly live, especially the shaved ones. It's hard to compare with a lot of pubic hair around them. In showers, tubs, skinny dipping, etc.

 
  how old are you? was this the first time you took a good look at your vagina? – if it is the first time, did you expect it to look the way it does? how often do you typically look at it? when was the first time you looked at it?

  I'm 26 and have looked at my pussy plenty of times, even with a mirror and my slit is so small, one can't see inside.
The only feature I'm glad about is my clit. It's pretty big and pushes itself out between my outer lips. When I'm sexually excited my clit will expand way up until it looks like a small penis. Being a gym instructor on acrobatics and being thin anyway, I can roll myself into a ball. In this manner, I can reach my clit with my mouth and generally suck myself off a couple times a day...sometimes more. But it would be nice if someone else would do me the honors once in a while.

 
  have your lovers told you what they think about how your vagina looks? what did they tell you? did you ask them, or did they offer?

  I don't have any real lovers, probably due to my skinny nature. The only ones who have commented on my vagina have been women friends. Guys aren't too interested in my vagina...they just want blow jobs.

 
  this conversation makes me think...

  of the the last time I talked to my mother about sex. She was understanding but had less knowledge than I about the female body.

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