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masturbation 42
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tell us about
your earliest experience of masturbation...
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My earliest experience
of masturbation was quite traumatic. I was taking a shower when I was
11 years old, and sat down for a moment to make certain that I was clean
and rinsed everywhere. My hand slipped and rubbed against my clit. I
experimented with repeating the action until several minutes later I
had my first orgasm. However, I was completely clueless about all things
sexual until I took to reading medical encyclopedias at age 12. I seriously
thought I was dying because my skin had become flushed, and I was light-headed.
I was terrified and started crying. Needless to say, it was a couple
years before I even came close to trying it again.
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when you
were growing up - what did your mother tell you about masturbation? did
you talk about it with your friends?
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Masturbation
was never discussed by my mother or my friends. I learned about the mechanics
of orgasms and sex through medical encyclopedias, and then much later
the Internet became an invaluable resource for learning more.
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what do you
think about; who do you fantasize about when you masturbate?
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I usually
fantasize about being manually or orally stimulated, occasionally having
penetrative sex. The partner in my fantasies varies by mood. Lately,
I've found myself thinking about the skilled fingers of the bowman Legolas
from Lord of the Rings.
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how do you
typically set the mood, do you use sex-toys? - describe the scene...props,
setting, soundtrack, etc.
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I always
dim the lights or turn them off. I usually use my bed, but I have a comfortable
recliner that also works.
sometimes use a vibrator, but I tend
to prefer my own hand since it feels real. It's otherwise difficult to
fantasize about another human being pleasuring me when human beings don't
vibrate.
I don't use music most of the time because it distracts me,
and causes it to take much longer to reach orgasm.
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got any great
masturbation stories to tell?
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Masturbation
for me is usually a routine boring event, like putting on my socks and
shoes, only a lot more fun.
During my risk-taking phase in high school,
I masturbated on a bus at night with the guy I had a crush on less than
two feet away from me. I also masturbated in a church bathroom because
it felt so forbidden, and the possibility of being caught made it even
more pleasurable.
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what would/did
you tell your daughter about masturbation...
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I would explain
what masturbation is shortly before she entered puberty, and tell her
that it is important and nothing to be ashamed of. I'd answer any questions
she had and offer to buy a vibrator for her whenever she wanted one.
After all, you can't expect someone else to know how to pleasure you
if you don't know what you want through pleasuring yourself.
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this conversation
makes me think...
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I
love being able to anonymously post things like this. It's almost like
a confessional of sorts, only I don't feel guilty about anything I did.
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