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masturbation 49
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tell us about
your earliest experience of masturbation...
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I was about 11/12. My mum had this Phillips shave kit, it was a shaver but you could take the shave head off and add attachments like a nail file and nail buffer. There was also an attachment that was a mini massager that was made up of little soft rubber prongs. I have no idea what made me put it between my legs but I did and it felt so good, but after I came I felt so guilty, I thought what I did was wrong.
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when you
were growing up - what did your mother tell you about masturbation? did
you talk about it with your friends?
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My mum didn't tell me anything about it, but every time she tried to talk to me about sex when I was younger I walked out the room, I didn't want to hear it from her. I'd never talk about it with my friends, it's private. Even when my mates talk about buying a vibrator I never talk about what I do.
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what do you
think about; who do you fantasize about when you masturbate?
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Whatever form the fantasy takes the guy in them is always this one person, who I'm totally in love with.
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how do you
typically set the mood, do you use sex-toys? - describe the scene...props,
setting, soundtrack, etc.
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I don't really set a mood, I just start felling horny then need to do it. For years I've done it with my hand and when I was about 17 I became totally comfortable with wanking (as we call it in the UK). But I resently brought a vibrator to see what all the fuss was about, it felt great but after the guilty feeling from when I was younger came back.
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got any great
masturbation stories to tell?
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While me and the guy I've been seeing on & off for about 3 years were in the throws of foreplay I started touching myself, which I'd never done before in front of him and not sure why I did it then. He immediately stopped what he was doin to watch me. He was watching me with such intensity and fascination and he had this look on his face like he was totally amazed by me and it really turned him on. The way he looked at me just made me feel so good about myself!
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what would/did
you tell your daughter about masturbation...
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That there is nothing wrong with it and that it is better to know your own body before you give it to someone else.
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this conversation
makes me think...
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There is nothing wrong with getting to know your own body and I had nothing to feel guilty about.
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