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story 66
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The first
thing I remember being told about the vagina was...
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from sex
ed. films and books. Also from Library books. I wasn't told about them.
I bought books to learn more.
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When my friends
and I first talked about vaginas...
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living a
very sheltered and protected life meant I knew very little about the opposite
sex. I knew I had something different from my sister but never enquired
why. I hadn't seen my sister without clothes since she was about 8.
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The first time
I heard of menstruation, I thought...
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it was rather
a horrible thing - all that blood. When about 13 used to find my mothers
used towels in a paper bag in the cupboard as well as the old bits of
sheet, cotton wool, to make her 'towels' and belt she wore when having
her period. She kept the used towels to burn them all together. There
weren't the proprietary brands around in those days, unlike today.
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The first time
I saw/touched a vagina...
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I never had
girlfriends in my teens - mores the pity - as I missed so much of the
'learning' kids have, but some friends and I when I was 11 met up with
a girl our age and went to the bushes near her house to play. It ended
up with "I'll show you mine, if you'll show me yours." We used
to look at and examine her and each others parts and play with our 'things'.
Also used to pee in front of each other. The girl would always squat to
do hers while we watched until we said try it standing. She had to take
her pants off otherwise she would have got them wet. It seemed funny to
us seeing a girl trying to wee standing as she had nothing to hold like
us.
We used to make her stand with her legs apart and feel from the front
and then turn round so we could see what it was like from the rear when
she bent over. This was usually when we managed to get a finger inside.
The girl by now had developed breasts and slight hair growth - it was
red. While we boys were only just starting ours - one of my friends got
a stiff but didn't know why. We used to take it in turns kissing the girl
as low down as we could get.
These explorations used to be as often as we could over a period of 8
months.
This was the closest I got until I was in my first relationship before
I married.
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Since then
my perception/experience of vaginas (changed/hasn't changed)...
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is that I
want more, much more.
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What I would
want my daughter to know about her vagina...
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not to be
shy about her physical appearance, about her sex and not to be shy.
If she wants to share with anyone of any age it is entirely up to her
as we have all had to learn somehow, somewhere.
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Usually, I call a vagina
a...
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rather common and slightly
nasty word - cunt.
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This conversation
makes me think...
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back to when
I was 11, and the pleasure an 11 year redhead gave me.
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