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virginity story 1
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what does "losing
your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us
about what the experience signified for you...
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losing it
was about a two year adventure. from first letting the boy unhook my
bra then later feel me through my panties then "finally" finger
me , both of us all the while figuring out what we were doing. after
months of him doing all the touching one day i did what i wanted and
unzipped him and had a penis in my hand for the first time. i hope he
never forgets it. intercourse came a year later.
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what were
your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing
your virginity?
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i masturbated
since i was very young and when i was a middle teen would imagine the
finger i inserted was my boys penis. i didnt worry about all the talk
of blood and hurting and walking differently the next day so everyone
would know.
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how old were
you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?
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i was 18
and it was planned for my then boyfriends 19th bday. i gave it to him
in his SAE fraternity house and it really was very special and loving
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what did
it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first
time and did you talk about it before?
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it really
was a night in heaven. no pain, no bleeding. he was a little experienced
and made sure that time for me was special. we spent 6 more years together
before drifting. thoughts of that night and weekend will always be very
special.
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what did
your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...
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only ever
talked about it with friends. of in my group then i wasnt the first or
last, but oh how we used to talk. we knew everything about each other
and one by one we knew all the details of when it happened (and men are
critized for talking). i dont think any of the experiences were as good
as mine. there were awkward, painful, embarassingly interupted, and just
being used first times for my friends.
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what would/did
you tell your daughter about losing her virginity...
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she's 14
and i've told her she has all the time she wants to build up to that
moment, take every next step and learn and enjoy but make the first time
one she'll always remember as very special.
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this conversation
makes me think...
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how intense
and wonderful it was watching his penis entering me
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