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virginity story 3
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what does "losing
your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us
about what the experience signified for you...
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The final
stage of giving yourself completely to someone you love. It signified
that i was now a woman and fully gave myself physically to the man i
love.
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what were
your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing
your virginity?
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i thought
it would be a magical experiance. Everything would happen naturally with
intense passion.
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how old were
you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?
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My husband
and i both waited til we got married which was soooo hard but VERY important
to both of us in our committment and love for each other. We wanted one
of the most exciting things in our relationship to happen only with each
other and to start things off with a bang in our marriage.
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what did
it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first
time and did you talk about it before?
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it hurt.
no blood. I was surprised. We had talked about it many times before and
the more we talked the more it helped us not do til we were ready.
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what did
your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...
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Not much.
I got a clinical talk when i was 10 but was too embarressed to ask anything
. They weren't open about it so i ended up talking to my friends and
their mom's instead. Ang magazines helped of course.
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what would/did
you tell your daughter about losing her virginity...
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I would
tell her how special it is. That's it's more than just bodies. It's mind,
body and soul involved too and if it's with the wrong person it can be
a painful experiance rather than a good one. And before marriage you're
giving a huge piece of yourself away not knowing if they'll be there
in the future. It's dangerous for your heart and self esteem. I know
too many woman who gives themselves so much they feel taken and a loss
of security.
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this conversation
makes me think...
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of how
thankful i am that my husband didn't pressure me to have sex. That he
respected me so much and had so much respect for our future together
and he helped protect us.
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