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losing your virginity  

 
virginity story 4


virginity story 4

  what does "losing your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us about what the experience signified for you...

  I think it is actual penetration between the penis and vagina. All the other sex, like oral and hand jobs or whatever- that doesn't count.

 
  what were your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing your virginity?

  I figured it would hurt, just like mom said when we had a "sex" talk.

 
  how old were you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?

  I was actually 21 when I let it go, but I didn't have any expectations. By age 21, you feel as though yo u'll die a virgin.

 
  what did it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first time and did you talk about it before?

  Well, it hurt a bit and there was a little blood, but not too much to worry about. My partner knew it was my first time and was gentle. He's my best friend and we had talked about it previous to the big event.

 
  what did your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...

  Not too much. I don't really think that anyone cares really. It's just a special moment for you and your lucky partner.

 
  what would/did you tell your daughter about losing her virginity...

Mainly to be careful, practice safe sex and I would hope that she would feel comfortable enough to talk to me about getting on birth control- because we wouldn't want any unplanned babies running around.

 
  this conversation makes me think...

I love my boyfriend :D.

 
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