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virginity story 6
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what does "losing
your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us
about what the experience signified for you...
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my understanding
of 'losing one's virginity' is when you have physical insertion of male
organ into female organ. Masturbation, fondling, carnal knowledge, exploration,
looking, touching, feeling are not in my book losing your virginity but
a learning process we all have to go through from a youngster to a teenager.
My experience was with a girl from New Zealand. We were in our early
20's. We had a lot of experience of kissing, cuddling and fondling, exploring
and so on but never physical intercourse, until she came to England for
a working holiday.
I followed her 12 months later. We both stayed with her family and one
night while they were out, we got bored with watching TV and while kissing
and cuddling, making up for lost time, she led me to her bedroom upstairs
and we lay on the bed together. I had my hands between her legs, feeling
all around her labia, vagina and pubes and then, to my surprise, she
removed her pants so I could get a better feel. She was already on her
back. I had already removed my trousers and underwear in order that she
could get a better touch of me. I was by now lying on top of her, kissing,
and she guided me into her, slipping in so easily to an already wet vagina.
We had pleasurable, but short, sex. What we didn't realise until after
was that she had leaked all over the bedcover and in our attempt to dry
the stain over a heater left a mark on the cover signifying where we
had 'been'. I lost my virginity that night but am sure my fiancee was
not a virgin. She took a bath afterwards while I watched and helped her.
Though it was almost great sex I suppose it wasn't my best experience.
I was unsure of myself.
I don't think the experience did a lot for her either on this occasion.
She didn't give the vibes after that I had expected. I think she just
wanted me to feel the experience of sex in order to end the relationship
as I had a feeling she had found a 'boyfriend,' in the previous year,
who was keeping in touch.
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what were
your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing
your virginity?
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thought
it would be explosive but possibly through lack of experience it wasn't.
Would have been better with an experienced and older person I guess.
Or maybe it was that my fiancee didn't have the feelings for me that
I had spent 12 months looking forwards too.
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how old were
you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?
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I was
22. I would have liked to have had more experience in my mid teens and
on and lost my virginity sooner.
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what did
it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first
time and did you talk about it before?
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it was
good and enjoyable but not mind blowing. Perhaps insufficient foreplay
beforehand. Our romance in New Zealand was better and the occasions that
we parked up and felt each other brought us closer together
No - no blood but quite a lot of lubricating liquid.
No we didn't talk about it before as the experience was unexpected especially
as I was dumped a few weeks later. I think she knew it was my first time
from the perhaps lacklustre performance
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what did
your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...
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nothing
that I remember
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what would/did
you tell your daughter about losing her virginity...
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it was
my step-daughter and tried to advise/guide her in understand about relationships
rather than the subject of sex directly
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this conversation
makes me think...
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wish I
could start again from about 12 when you began to understand what it
was all about
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