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virginity story 10
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what does "losing
your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us
about what the experience signified for you...
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i think
losing your virginity is when you have sex-> when a man's penis
penetrates your vagina. you can have oral sex (giving and receiving)
and still be a virgin.
when i lost my virginity, it meant that i was free to make my own decisions
and not worry about what anyone thought. it meant that i was going to
a new level with my boyfriend that i haven't taken yet with any of my
previous boyfriends.
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what were
your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing
your virginity?
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i thought
it was going to hurt more than it actually ended up hurting. and i didn't
think i was going to be able to orgasm (i ended up not orgasming the
first time, and i was ok with that)
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how old were
you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?
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i expected
to lose my virginity when i was in college, and that's what i did. i
lost it when i was 18, freshman year of college, about six months ago
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what did
it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first
time and did you talk about it before?
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it felt
ok, not great, but not extremely painful. there was no blood, but there
were times when i felt a little sore. my boyfriend and i had discussed
that i was a virgin (he wasn't) he had told me a few times before i lost
my virginity that anything i wanted sexually, he would give to me, but
it was ok with him if i wanted to wait a long time before we had sex.
when we finally had it, we were in bed fooling around and i asked him
to make love to me.
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what did
your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...
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my sister
had told me that it was good, when she had finally found the right person
to do it with. a friend of mine had told me that it changes everything
in a relationship. i think that that is true, although the morning after
losing my virginity i didn't. now, though, i do. it has changed things
for the better.
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what would/did you tell
your daughter about losing her virginity...
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not to rush into anything,
to make sure she's in love, that she's treated with respect, that she
doesn't have to be married before she does (but there's nothing wrong
if she does want to wait)
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this conversation
makes me think...
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of my boyfriend's arms
around me, because i felt safe and loved when i lost my virginity to
him
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