| |
|
|
virginity story 22
|
|
| |
what does "losing
your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us
about what the experience signified for you...
|
|
in the
fullest, most technical term, I would say you lose
your virginity when the penis enters the vagina, whether or
not the hymen ruptures
|
|
| |
what were
your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing
your virginity?
|
|
I had
many a fantasy on how it would feel and how I would
feel when I lost my virginity--I imagined it to be fully
erotic in the most romantic way possible, and that marriage
to the person i love would make it all the more poignant
|
|
| |
how old were
you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?
|
|
I had
intended to keep my virginity until my wedding night,
but many a good intention doesn't hold true...lol. As far as
I know, I have been responsible to myself--at 18, I consider
myself more mature and more ready than countless of other
people out there who have lost theirs at an even younger
age....I lost mine only recently, say about 5 months ago, and
honestly I don't regret it, because it was with the man that
I care deeply about and who knows all my weaknesses and
shortcomings, so if he can love me with all my faults in tow,
then he can accept me for who I am, and I can feel that I
have not just thrown away this special part of me, because no
matter when you decide to lose your virginity, trust me; in
the long run, it matters, and it's worth the wait to know
when you're ready.
|
|
| |
what did
it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first
time and did you talk about it before?
|
|
there
was definitely blood, and yes, it did hurt at
first....my man is a very considerable size, and I have come
to appreciate that (lol). But he did know that it was my
first time, and we had talked about it before; he assured me
that as much as he wanted me, he wanted more that I be ready
and willing to give it to him when I felt it was time, so
ladies, appreciate a gentleman. It goes a long way into what
you can tell about his character ;)
|
|
| |
what did
your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...
|
|
I'm
an Asian, first of all, and typically many asians are
traditionally conservative, and would rather die than risk
embarassing themselves over such a personal matter. Needless
to say, I have the typical asian parents, so yes, other than
the fact that they told me not to lose my virginity until I
was wedded, they didn't tell me anything.
|
|
| |
what would/did you tell
your daughter about losing her virginity...
|
|
I know our beliefs
and conceptions change as time rolls by,
but if or when I ever have a daughter, she must learn to
respect her sexuality, of course, but she must also know that
her virginity is not something to be trifled with. and though
I will not make her adhere to the black and white rule of "no
sex until marriage", I would want her to know that it is the
greatest gift you can give to someone you love, so choose
wisely
|
|
| |
this conversation
makes me think...
|
|
how much I miss
my lover and best friend (he's out of town
right now), and what I would give for a good, long fuck right
now. sorry if i'm not as sophisticated as you pictured me to
be. ;)
|
|
|
