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virginity story 23
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what does "losing
your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us
about what the experience signified for you...
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Penentration
from either a penis or a strap-on.
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what were
your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing
your virginity?
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Well
my expectations (since I'm still a virgin) are that I
will lose my virginity to someone I love, and hopefully it
will make us closer and I will have an orgasm.
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how old were
you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?
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I am 22
and still a virgin. I expect to lose my virginity by
the time I'm 30.
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what did
it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first
time and did you talk about it before?
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Not applicable.
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what did
your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...
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Mother/family:
sex is supposed to be shared with someone you
love, is a manifestation of love
Grandmother: Wait until you are married
Male family members: Nothing.
Friends: It's overrated. Not everyone has had sex.
Society: You are not a real woman until you've had sex. .
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what would/did you tell
your daughter about losing her virginity...
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To wait until she's
ready and that it will be up to her to
decide when that is once she's living on her own. To wait
until she finds someone she loves and trusts. To use
protection and get tested for STDs/AIDs. That in addition to
be scary, sex can also be an amazing and magical experience.
To not be afraid of her vagina.
I hope that if I have a daughter, she could find a
responsible adult (if not me) with whom she could talk to
about these things, instead of getting misinformation from
friends and television
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this conversation
makes me think...
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Being a virgin
doesn't mean I'm anti-sex, it just means that
it's not the right time for me right now to have sex.
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