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virginity story 30
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what does "losing
your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us
about what the experience signified for you...
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Virgin
- never had sexual intercourse.
It meant alot to me. I made sure it was the right guy and the
right time before I did. There is alot of responsibility that
goes along with sex.
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what were
your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing
your virginity?
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I knew
it would be painful. I worried some that I would
regret the experiance later.
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how old were
you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?
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16. I
had thought in prior years that I would probably be
around this age. Im glad i wasnt any younger.
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what did
it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first
time and did you talk about it before?
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It felt
like alot of pressure was being put inside me. Almost
like somthing was breaking. Suprisingly, there was very
little blood. He knew i was a virgin beforehand and we had
talk about it some and he made the whole experiance really
wonderful.
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what did
your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...
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My
mother told me to of course wait for marriage, friends
told me to make sure he was the right guy, family didnt
really discuss the matter.
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what would/did you tell
your daughter about losing her virginity...
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I would want my daughter
to wait till she was married, but i
know better than to think she would. i would stress the
importance of safe sex and birth control. I would tell her to
come to me if she needed those things. I would want her to be
comfortable comming to me than end up sick or pregnant. Also,
i would make sure she understood that sex is not about your
friends or outside forces. its about how you feel about
someone and if you really want to share that part of you with
them.
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this conversation
makes me think...
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Im happy my
1st time was meaningful. Somthing I dont regret.
I would also enjoy some sex tonight now that I think about
it...
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