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virginity story 33
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what does "losing
your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us
about what the experience signified for you...
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Losing
one's virginity means having sex. i'm leaning towards including oral
sex just because the term even suggests the fact that it is a form of
sex. And since losing your virginity to me means having sex, oral SEX
is included in my indicator of whether or not one is a virgin.
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what were
your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing
your virginity?
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i really
didn't expect it to hurt all that much seeing as how i've used tampons
and masturbated by inserting fingers inside of me so i pretty much assumed
that my hymen (if i even had one) was pretty much broken already.
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how old were
you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?
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i was
20 and i thought i would have lost it sooner...there is a hell of a lot
of pressure to lose your virginity before your twenties so i was very
antsy about being 20 and still a virgin.
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what did
it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first
time and did you talk about it before?
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ummm
to tell the truth, it wasn't this big orgasmic experience for me...i
moaned and exaggerated a little for my partner because i knew it turned
him on to hear me moaning, but honestly, i didn't really feel much when
it came to the actual vaginal penetration...clitoral stimulation gets
me to orgasm a lot better than vaginal stimulation...which isn't all
that surprising and shouldn't be surprising to most out there because
its a well known fact that the inside of a woman's vagina has little
to no nerve endings. How else would she be able to use tampons without
it bothering the hell out of her?? its because SHE CANT FEEL THEM INSIDE
OF HER because the walls of the vagina are practically without nerve
endings. Now the clitoris is another story.
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what did
your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...
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MY
FAMILY TOLD ME NOTHING AND AS FAR AS I KNOW, THEY STILL THINK IM A VIRGIN.
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what would/did you tell
your daughter about losing her virginity...
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I'd tell her that she
should wait for that special guy to lose her virginity to..losing one's
virginity doesn't miraculously change something about a person...i know
it didn't change much about me...psychologically, the anticipation and
yearning to lose "it" is gone but thats the only difference
i can tell.
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this conversation
makes me think...
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That i shouldn't
have been all down on myself just cuz i was a 20 year old virgin....ITS
REALLY NOT A BIG DEAL. and if you feel you HAVE to lose your virginity
simply cuz "everyone else i know has done it", then maybe you
should take a good look at why you seem to have the need to be such a
follower and do things just because "everyone else is"
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