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losing your virginity  

 
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  what does "losing your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us about what the experience signified for you...

  Losing your virginity means having sexual intercourse for the first time. I don't think oral sex counts as losing your virginity, although it is a sexual act.

 
  what were your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing your virginity?

  I didn't expect it to hurt quite so much. I had experimented with myself, and it never caused pain like that.

 
  how old were you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?

  I was 16. I had a steady boyfriend and I knew he would be the one I would lose my virginity to. I never thought about how old I would be, but 16 seems to be a pretty normal age to start having sex.

 
  what did it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first time and did you talk about it before?

  It hurt! I never did bleed, but I have heard that some people do. My boyfriend knew it was my first time and we had talked about it before when we were just messing around. He was gentle and good to me.

 
  what did your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...

  My mom took me to the doctor one time after I had lost my virginity. The doctor asked if I was sexually active, and I said yes. After that, my mom and I talked about it. I was still 16 I think.

 
  what would/did you tell your daughter about losing her virginity...

I think I will talk to her about it. I want her to feel comfortable talking to me about everything.

 
  this conversation makes me think...

About the boyfriend I lost my virginity to...who is now my husband!

 
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