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virginity story 37
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what does "losing
your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us
about what the experience signified for you...
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First
full penetrative sex
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what were
your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing
your virginity?
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I had
expectations of romantic love, "being swept off my feet." I
expected it to hurt.
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how old were
you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?
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14.
I hadn't expected it to happen so early.
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what did
it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first
time and did you talk about it before?
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It hurt
when he first came into me, and there was a streak of blood on the sheet,
but it became all pleasure very quickly, thank you very much. He was
an older boy who'd had some experience (with my cousin, among other girls).
He knew it was my first time, and he was very gentle and loving. He made
me come with his fingers and with his mouth before he came inside me.
He held me from behind, with one arm across my breasts and he had me
guide him into my vagina. When he was in me he held me for a while without
moving much and played with my nipples and murmured sweet things to me
before he went on. It was quite lovely, even though I didn't come that
first time.
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what did
your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...
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My
mother told me to wait until I was sure I was ready, and to make sure
he used protection. Only one of my close friends had lost her virginity
by then. She told me a few details, like how it felt when a man climaxed
inside you.
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what would/did you tell
your daughter about losing her virginity...
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I have no daughter,
but I'd tell her to choose her first partner carefully.
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this conversation
makes me think...
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of my first love and
all the delicious sex we had together!
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