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virginity story 38


virginity story 38

  what does "losing your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us about what the experience signified for you...

  having physical sex

 
  what were your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing your virginity?

  that it would be on a romatic occasion, that I would be swept off my feet and that I would really be in love. It was more a case of lust, get your knickers off quick and love didn't feature except in the actual act which some say is love-making. Perhaps had I waited until I was older if might have been different but Iwas only 15 at the time.

 
  how old were you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?

  as said I was only 15. I had intend to stay a virgin at leats until I was 18 or maybe at best until I was married but when things happen fast and get a little out of control you think ' this is the moment' I want it NOW. It wasn't in the best of circumstances either - somewhere out out in the wilds in the back of neyond.

 
  what did it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first time and did you talk about it before?

  it wasn't, thinking about it, all that pleasant. More a case of wham bang thank you mam. It wasn't for love just pure unadultated lust and sex by two people

 
  what did your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...

  my mother warned me about getting pregnant, of course, and what would happen if I went 'too far' but how do you tell someone the point at which you are going to far once the hormones and the adrenaline take control.

 
  what would/did you tell your daughter about losing her virginity...

be careful

 
  this conversation makes me think...

i would like to start life all over again and experience everything on the basis of what I now know. I think being a teenager is the worst time to get involved in sex but snogging, fumbling and exploring all seem to be part of growing up - part of learning. about the opposite sex.

 
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