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virginity story 39


virginity story 39

  what does "losing your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us about what the experience signified for you...

  The first time a woman has sexual intercourse. For me, it meant that I had finally become a man.

 
  what were your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing your virginity?

  Erotic, fun, delightful, extremely pleasurable ... but I was also nervous, which added to the excitement!

 
  how old were you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?

  22 years old ... I don't think I really had an intended age, but by the time it happened, I felt it was WAY TOO LATE! I still do to this day!

 
  what did it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first time and did you talk about it before?

  It was with a prostitute and she didn't seemed phased in the least that I was a virgin. I told her I was one. She led me through it all, for example, "would you like me to suck you?" I didn't use a condom (pre-AIDS) and it felt warm, wet and very, very good. I came in a minute or two because she was pumping me hard.

 
  what did your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...

  I never told anyone except my best friend and my first fiancee. She was shocked and hurt that I had lost it with a prostitute (it was 7 years before I met her!). My second fiancee - who is now my wife - wasn't bothered in the least.

 
  what would/did you tell your daughter about losing her virginity...

Lose it in high school, sleep around before you are married, practice safe sex, don't ever be a jerk to a girl if you take her virginity and don't do it, unless you want to be with her the next day.

 
  this conversation makes me think...

How I would love to go back and do it all over again in high school with a girl who was a virgin, too, and whom I cared about. That would be the ultimate in sexual experiences!

 
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