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virginity story 42
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what does "losing
your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us
about what the experience signified for you...
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Loosing
your virginity means that you finally had a penis inserted in your vagina.
The experience to me signified a deeper connection that me and my boyfriend
both wanted
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what were
your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing
your virginity?
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My expectations
were that i was going to bleed hella bad and that i was gonna cry all
kinds. my friends had told me that a few of them had to have the guy
pull out before he came because the pain was "so intense".
it turns out it wasn't as horrible as everyone makes it out to be, at
least for me
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how old were
you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?
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I was
16, and still am. My boyfriend and I wanted to wait till marriage, but
then we kinda "found each other" and became serious and that
thought kinda went down the drain.
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what did
it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first
time and did you talk about it before?
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It felt
like ur vagina is being stretched (obviously) but when he pushed all
the way in, it hurt really bad like a tooth being pulled, that kind of
deep pain. There wasn't any blood because i had my hymen broken before
from something else. Me and boyfriend were both virgins and we had talked
about it multiple times, but we decided we were only gonna do it when
we loved each other and we were both ready.
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what did
your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...
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My
family is the type taht doesn't talk about sex. not that its a forbidden
subject or anything, we just never bring it up, and i never had the dreaded "sex
talk". a few of my friends had recently lost their virginity and
they didnt encourage me either way
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what would/did you tell
your daughter about losing her virginity...
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i would tell my daughter
taht she should only do it if she's ready emotionally and physically
to do it. i'd tell to her make sure her and the guy loved each other
and that'd he'd stick around afterwards, not just one night stand. and
ALWAYS USE PROTECTION
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this conversation
makes me think...
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That it wasn't a bad
choice on my part because i know me and my boyfriend love each other
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