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virginity story 44
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what does "losing
your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us
about what the experience signified for you...
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losing
it means going all the way,full sexual intercourse that is.
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what were
your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing
your virginity?
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i expected
pain and bleeding a lot of pushing,pulling moaning and groaning.
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how old were
you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?
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l
was 17 and in love with a hunk off a man,he was and still is very caring
person,although my parents did not like him.
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what did
it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first
time and did you talk about it before?
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I had
been going out with the guy for a mere nine months we had talked about
making love but i was always nervous and so was he ,we had got our hands
on the lovers guide a series off videos which were very useful and full
off information ,on the night we made love for the first time,it was
fantastic ! it was just so natural ,we had about 30-50 minutes off foreplay
{maybe even longer} beforehand and he even performed oral sex on me which
made me orgasm before he even produced his penis for oral sex which i
gladly gave him in return ,although he stopped me before he "came" in
my mouth he assured me he had enjoyed what i had did also ,we were both
virgins ,before entering me he gave me more oral sex,and kept asking
did i want to stop, it was the most enjoyable event in my life.There
was no pain ,no bleeding just a complete night of pure sexual enjoyment.we
ended up having intercourse a total of 8 times that night we used condoms
as our chosen means of protection and i lost count off the amount off
times he gave me oral sex,he was and still is a fantastic lover.we are
still together .
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what did
your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...
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my
friends told me it would hurt like hell,my parents told me it was something
confined to marraige and the bedroom.Both off which i have found out
to be untrue,intercourse can happen anywhere as long as you are comfortable
with it and your privacy is secured.and as long as you and your partner
are comfortable with each other .
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what would/did you tell
your daughter about losing her virginity...
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i would give my daughter
the "lover guide" series off videos which we still have and
explain to her that she should only consider, like l did,having sex when
she feels completely comfortable with the relationship she is in with
her partner,to not feel pressurised by anyone into having sexual intercourse,l
would also tell her to take plenty off time on the night,there's should
be no big rush on the night you lose your virginity.and sex can take
as long as you want,to use protection.and enjoy herself.sexual intercourse
should not be slam bam and thank you mam.
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this conversation
makes me think...
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if i had to live my
life all over again would i wait until i was 17,the answer to that question
is yes and i would still love to have the same person to share my first
time with.
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