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virginity story 47
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what does "losing
your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us
about what the experience signified for you...
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the first
time the penis enters the vagina. oral sex doesn't count!
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what were
your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing
your virginity?
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i was nervous
because i thought it would hurt. i had absolutely NO idea what to expect
because i'd never inserted a tampon or a finger or anything. i wasn't
even sure where my vagina WAS except for in a real general sense. that's
sort of embarassing to admit. anyway, i didn't really think it would
be very special... i kind of just wanted to get it over with.
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how old were
you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?
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when
i was in fifth grade i expected to lose my virginity at eighteen, and
every year after that it went down a few months or years. i ended up
losing it a month after i turned fourteen. i think that was way too young,
in retrospect. but i am glad i got it over with.
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what did
it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first
time and did you talk about it before?
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i hadn't
discussed it much with my partner, but the option had always been there.
it really, really hurt, unfortunately. yes, there was blood. i absolutely
had a husband. i'm not very athletic... i never horseback rided or did
rhythmic gymnastics or fell on a fence when i was younger. it didn't
feel good at all... all i remember was how uncomfortable it was.
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what did
your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...
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my
mother learned i was sexually active the summer of my fifteenth year,
and she subsequently took me to planned parenthood. that was nice of
her. i think she thinks i'm responsible enough to handle it. most of
my friends have had sex, so we discuss it a lot and joke about it. i'm
the only one who bled though! what an honor. not.
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what would/did you tell
your daughter about losing her virginity...
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i would tell her to
wait for someone special. i konw that's hypocritical, but could you imagine
telling your daughter just to get it over with?
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this conversation
makes me think...
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my current boyfriend,
who's really geeky and will probably never have sex with me until i'm
married to him and we're living together in palo alto.
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