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virginity story 60
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what does "losing
your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us
about what the experience signified for you...
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i am still
a virgin. to me, losing your virgnity is physically when a penis enters
the vagina. mentally, i think it opens up a whole new world for a woman.
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what were
your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing
your virginity?
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i haven't
lost it yet, but i expect to be in a relationship with someone i really
care about, who really cares about me. i have had opportunities before,
but it was never the right guy. i expect it to hurt like hell, though
reading these stories made me realize that some girls don't experience
any pain at all.
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how old were
you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?
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i
will be 19 in 3 weeks. i expect to lose my virginity sometime within
the next year, honestly. but if i don't meet that special guy, i'm okay
with waiting longer. i would never do it just to 'get it over with'.
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what did
it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first
time and did you talk about it before?
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i would
definitely talk about it beforehand with my partner. i would want him
to know that it was my first time, so he wouldn't expect me to be some
orgasmatronic porn star in bed. :-P
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what did
your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...
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my
mom and i are very open about stuff like sex. we've actually talked about
her first time before, which happened when she was 17 with a longterm
boyfriend. i've also talked to most of my mom's 5 sisters about their
first times. my close girlfriends have told me about their sex lives,
though one of my close girlfriends is still a virgin too.
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what would/did you tell
your daughter about losing her virginity...
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i would want to have
a very, very open relationship with my daughter, like i've always had
with my mother. i'd tell her not to be pressured into it, neither by
a guy or by her friends who have already done it. i would tell her to
make sure she's with someone she loves, someone who respects her, someone
she sees a long future with. if she wants to wait until marriage, great.
and of course i'd tell her to use protection, always.
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this conversation
makes me think...
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that so many
girls are having sex at such early ages. i can't believe the girls who
lose it at 12, 13, 14... my theory is that if you're not able to financially
support a baby, you shouldn't be having sex. i think 17 or 18 is the
EARLIEST anyone should lose their virginity. sex is such a HUGE responsibility.
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