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virginity story 61


virginity story 61

  what does "losing your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us about what the experience signified for you...

  There are degrees - there's kissing virginity, there's touching virginity, but I guess what was most important to me was losing my vaginity ;). I had experiences with boys and girls before that.

 
  what were your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing your virginity?

  I imagined it would be good, and I thought about it a lot, trying to imagine what a vagina must feel like.

 
  how old were you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?

  I was 18. It felt like the right time.

 
  what did it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first time and did you talk about it before?

 

I'm a guy, and my first partner wasn't a virgin. She was a married woman on my college course - her husband was away working for some weeks. I remember we petted a lot on a couple of occasions and finally one of these was at her place and we ended up in bed - 'somewhere more comfortable' she said. I had such intense and joyous delightful feelings just from the touch of our skin and holding her and being held. When I recall the moment we first had sex, I get the memory of such intense feelings as I penetrated her vagina that if I were to represent the moment in a picture, there would be rays of intense light emanating from our genitals. I remember the feeling of being inside her, and the feeling of our pubic hair touching. I also remember her realising after my orgasm that this was my first time - and being very appreciative that I could continue until she had an orgasm.

 
  what did your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...

  My mother?! The very idea.

 
  what would/did you tell your daughter about losing her virginity...

Make sure she does it when she wants to - at her own pace with someone she respects and who respects her. Also, try to find somewhere comfortable...

 
  this conversation makes me think...

about the 1970s.

 
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