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losing your virginity

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	what does "losing your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us about what the experience signified for you...		loosing your virginity means giving someone your innocense; the first time you have sexual intercourse. for me it was giving someone that i loved everything that i could give them.
	what were your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing your virginity?		i expected it to hurt mostly. even my mother's said it's not good until you're older.
	how old were you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?		i was 14. i don't know when i exactly expected to loose my virginity, but loosing it felt right.
	what did it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first time and did you talk about it before?		my partner knew it was my first time, but he himself wasn't a virgin. we had talked about it, and he had told me before that he wished that he had saved himself for me. i knew that it would be right, and it was. it hurt a bit when he first pushed into me, but there was no blood. a few minutes after that deep pain, it started to feel much better. it was gentle, and i loved it. i'm very happy that we had sex, and continue to have sex now.
	what did your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...		my mother has discussed all of her past sexual experiences with me. we're close, my father on the other hand, wants me to reamin "his little girl" forever. he has no idea, nor will he have any idea, that i lost my virginity. and my friends, there are only a select few who aren't virgins, and we can talk about it openly.
	what would/did you tell your daughter about losing her virginity...		i would tell her that's it's the most important gift that you can give anyone, and that it belongs to you. it's sacred, and to only give it to someone when you're sure that you want to give them everything you have. i would tell her that i would be very accepting of whatever decisions she made, probably because of the young age at which i lost my virginity, and i would ALWAYS encourage her to use protection! safe sex is the best.
	this conversation makes me think...		about how i can't wait for my boyfriend to get here. he'll be here soon .. hopefully.

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