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losing your virginity

			virginity story 67
	what does "losing your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us about what the experience signified for you...		when a penis penetrates the vagina...
	what were your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing your virginity?		although i didn't expect it to be a bed of roses like hollywood depicts it, i pictured it as a cross between a tender, romantic act and something more animalistic and aggressive
	how old were you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?		19...i actually expected to lose it sooner, and although the opportunities did present themselves, i ultimately decided to wait for the "right" guy, and i'm glad that i did
	what did it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first time and did you talk about it before?		it was far, far more painful than i was anticipating...i had expected it to be painful, but i would liken it to a knife being shoved "up there". apparently my guy has a large "thing" so that didn't really help either, he got about 3/4 of the way in and i just couldn't take the pain anymore. yes, he was fully aware that it was my first time...in fact, i think the subject of virginity was brought up on fairly early on in our relationship. we have been pretty open when it comes to discussing all things sexual and i felt really comfortable with him. also, i had a pretty good idea that it was gonna happen when it did.
	what did your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...		my friends and i often discuss sex at great length, so most of my sexual knowledge i got from them or good ol' cosmo magazine (gotta love cosmo!)
	what would/did you tell your daughter about losing her virginity...		i would answer all of her questions, and tell her to talk to friends and read up on it. and that it's not something that should just be "given" away to the first person that shows an interest. while i don't necessarily associate romantic love with sex, it should feel "right"...and if for whatever reason it doesn't feel 100% right, it probably isn't.
	this conversation makes me think...		how great it is that there's a forum for women to share such intimate stories. (it's sort of reassuring reading other ppl's stories)

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